The 9 Best Ways To Improve Your Social Life Aug 29, 2016 by Sarah (Day Styles)
As we get older, it feels harder than ever to find and keep new friends. If you’re unhappy with your current situation or you feel like your social life is stuck in a rut, there are solutions! It’s never too late to take up a new hobby, meet like-minded people, and create some new experiences. With new friends that you enjoy spending time with, chances are that you will feel better and regain a positive outlook on your social life. A lot of people are afraid of branching out and doing new things because they are afraid of rejection, especially as adults, but studies have shown that increased social interaction has a direct link to an improved quality of life. If you’ve found that you’re in a rut or feeling lonely, take a look at these simple ideas that can help you get yourself out there!
1. Reach Out To People!
Sometimes you have to take it upon yourself and reach out to the people you want in your life. Especially as we get older and have less time of our own, many friendships and connections fade away because we wait too long to reach out and make plans. If we don’t keep the lines of communication open we can lose track of what’s happening in our friends’ lives and find it increasingly difficult to keep in touch, both literally and emotionally! It might seem intimidating but it’s not too late to reach out to old friends and make new plans – remember, they probably want to get in touch and are just as nervous as you!
2. Don’t Worry About Rejection
Fear of rejection is a huge obstacle when we’re trying to expand our social circle. Just remember that the worst thing that could happen is that someone decides that they don’t want to spend time with you - it’s not the end of the world, and you haven’t lost anything you didn’t have in the first place! There’s no real harm in trying to make new friends because you won’t lose anything if it doesn't work out. The real harm is when we stop putting ourselves out there.
3. Look For Common Interests
Making friends is the first step but don’t forget that you need common interests if you want to spend time together! Ironically, if you’re looking for someone who shares one of your interests, the easiest solution is to get out there on your own! We know it can be intimidating, but you can have fun and look for interesting people that share your activity! This may require stepping outside of your comfort zone and working up the courage to introduce yourself, but the potential payoff is someone who already shares your interests - that gives you a solid foundation and it’s better than throwing yourself into the unknown!
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